Thursday, September 6, 2012

It Has Ever Been Thus...

"Now, it was for the sole purpose to get gain, because they received their wages according to their employ, therefore, they did stir up the people to riotings, and all manner of disturbances and wickedness, that they might have more employ, that they might get money..."
Alma 11:20
We are all connected.

Yesterday morning there was a 7.9 earthquake in Costa Rica.  I heard it on the radio.  I saw it on a web page.  I read it in an email.  I located it on a world map on my phone.  I even discussed it with co-workers on a skype call - all before the all clear was given to our Costa Rican contractors to re-enter their office building.

Costa Rica.  That's a quarter of the way around the planet from here.  It's in a whole 'nother hemisphere for heaven's sake!

We live in the "Way Too Much Information Age".  Information comes at us so fast and so plentiful via so many avenues that we simply cannot take it all in.  And we are changing because of it.

You've heard it said by the talking heads - probably even said it yourself a time or two: "Apparently, truth doesn't matter anymore."  And to some extent, they (and you) are right.  But it isn't because we don't care about the truth, or even that we wouldn't like to know what the truth is if we could - we simply don't have time to find it.  Truth does not fit into a 140 character tweet.

Or a 3 second sound bite.

We are instead willing to make a judgement based on a statistical approximation of the truth using the information we find most readily available.  Research consists of a Google™ search.  If the two-line summary of the search result does not contain what we are looking for, we won't even bother clicking through to the web page.  And if the top search result summaries all seem to suggest the same answer, we will accept it as true and move on with our lives - especially if the suggested answer aligns with our preconceptions.

Is it any wonder, then, that negative campaigns work?  It is not possible in a 30 second advertisement to effectively educate people on the merits of one philosophy over another.  But it is possible to defame and ridicule the other candidate.  In the first few lines of a Facebook™  wall post, you can't adequately explain why you believe one candidate's policies to be more effective than the other's, but you can incite fear by suggesting that the other guy wants to harm you in some way.  As with our Google searches, we'll accept as true what the majority of the information coming our way seems to suggest.

When did we stop seeing political candidates as a pair of individuals with differing viewpoints on how to make things better for people, and instead started seeing them as good versus evil - as one who will save us and one who will destroy us?  How have we become so polarized that we will with such passion and fury twist, filter and distort information, and even blatantly lie in order to, on the one hand, extol virtue and defend and excuse vice, and on the other hand accuse, attack, dismiss and even threaten - all because of party affiliation?

Has it ever been thus? (That's an old-fashioned way of asking, "WTH?")

Not anymore.  Not for me.

I choose to delete, not forward inflammatory or derogatory tweets, emails, texts, Facebook posts, etc regardless of which "side" they support.  I choose to turn off media outlets that "stir up the people" to hatred or contention, or that seek to promote one person by vilifying another.  I choose to speak only with respect about those who hold or seek public office.  I choose to vote based on the principles and platforms that a candidate upholds, and never based on party affiliation.

And in this too-connected world of instant information (and piles of it), I choose to take the time to learn the truth.

Friday, August 31, 2012

"Are you ready for some FOOTBALL!!"

J2 did a lot of babysitting, mowed lawns and did odd jobs for various members of our ward to earn the money to play in the Westlake Youth Football League this fall.  He has learned a lot about football and he's having tons of fun.

He is one of two kickers on the team and he also plays right corner back on defensive.  When on defense, his coach calls him "the fumble maker."

His team dressed up in costumes for the yearly "weigh in".  Yes, J2 is really wearing a shell bra!! (I call it blackmail!)


Sunday, June 24, 2012

Commuting on a tight budget


When the going get's tough, the tough get going.
...
The rest of us resort to sheer stupidity...


Saturday, April 7, 2012

Cutest Egg Contest


Everyone looks forward to dying Easter Eggs. Usually we have between 60-72 eggs to dye ... and everything is done in about 20 minutes.

This year, we decided to have a contest with a theme ... the cutest egg contest. Each person had 6 eggs to dye. It took 2 hours to finish dying all the eggs! Everyone had fun being creative.



We need your help to choose the winner of our "Cute Egg Contest"!!
Here are the contestants:
Little Duckling
I love Families


Blue Bunny
Ogres are Not like eggs!
Smile!
Peek-a-Boo, Chick!
Killer Bunny!
Watermelon
Where's Waldo?
Crying Baby
Easter Egg on an Easter Egg
The Blimp
Polka Dots
Family of Chicks


Since the Easter Bunny was going to be hiding eggs in the local park for a party on Saturday, we decided to leave our eggs and baskets out on the table and see if he'd come and hide ours, too. He did!

Lil' Miss and my Little Man had fun looking for a few eggs, but then they were more interested in eating candy and sharing their candy with each other.

Happy Easter!

Saturday, March 17, 2012

Twilight Moment

If you have ever seen the movie Twilight, you remember the scene when Edward picked Bella up for a date and her dad was cleaning his shotgun?

L prepared for her date ...
... even had her best friend's sister do her hair.
Don prepared, too!
Kaleb was a little nervous when he arrived. He even asked Don if one of the bullets had his name engraved on it! Don casually replied, "No, I don't want you to put your name on a bullet. It'll find you anyway."
Everyone calmed down and we sent them on their way after getting a few details about the evening and making sure they had a cell phone in the event of an emergency.

Sunday, March 4, 2012

Feeling Like a Princess

Being a Princess has it's perks.

First, there was the Homecoming Dance with Jon.
Then there was the Sadie Hawkins Dance with Richard.
Next up, the Sweethearts Dance with Calvin.
Now it is Prom time. A couple weeks ago a young man named Kaleb dressed up like a knight and had Richard (see photo above) play a fanfare on the trombone while Kaleb announced, "Here ye, Here ye. Will you go to Prom with me?" Of course, she said yes! (She just found out the theme for Prom is "A Knight for a Princess" ... Kaleb had come up with his idea to ask her before the theme was announced.)

So, yesterday we spent about 3 hours shopping for a prom dress. OUCH!!
I didn't think to take a picture of the first dress she tried on, but here are her other dress selections.
She looked so beautiful in all of the dresses. As she tried them on, she kept saying, "I feel like a Princess!" Which is your favorite? Which one do you think L chose?

J1 decided to try on a couple dresses as well, just for fun. She also looked beautiful!
Don thought I should have tried on a dress or two as well ... maybe next time.

Saturday, March 3, 2012

Daddy, these are megetables!

Okay, I admit it. I'm wrapped totally around those cute sticky fingers.